Why is life so hard?

Are you finding life is getting hard for you?

You find bills are building up, you are getting stroppy with your friends and family and you don't seem to have a moment to yourself.

Sometimes this can lead to depression and everyone else seems to have it so easy.  They have a family that loves them, friends that care and a job they enjoy.

The truth is, in my opinion, is when life gets so hard is because you are not growing fast enough.  This means you are letting your life slide and not fulfilling your dreams.

What to do?

Take stock of your aspirations.  Start working towards your dreams.  Find areas that will take you in the direction you want to go.

Does this help with your bills?  Of course it doesn't, but first you need to know what it is you want from life because if you don't know you can't work towards it constructively.

It's not enough to have a vague idea of where you want to be nor is it enough that you want to be financially well off.  You need to work out what you need financially and work backwards from there.

The biggest mistake people make is living beyond their means.

If you are not making enough money to support your lifestyle (no matter how meagre it might be) then you have to work out how to earn more.  This is not as hard as it looks but will take time.

Re-educate yourself and start working towards your dreams.

Get rid of the TV and even if you return home tired from work still work towards your dreams or you will have the same life you have now in years to come.

Being successful is not an easy ride but it is waiting for those people who work towards it.

Make your life what you want it to be and don't let anything hold you back.  Not TV, not drink, not friends, not family, not anything…

Just go out and do it.

It doesn't matter what has happened in the past it's what happens from now that matters.  Better yourself every day, you should only compete with yourself and no one else.

Make this day the best day of your life and most importantly don't doubt yourself.  It is too easy to let go and not work towards your dreams.

Don't let your environment dictate your lifestyle.  You may have some big obstacles to overcome but you are capable, you have the energy and drive to be successful, just trust yourself and don't look for approval from anyone.  Just work towards your dreams.

Have a great day today and every day!

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